Blog | Evelin Dacker MD

COVID CARE: A better way to take care of one another as we start opening up society.

We are starting to enter into a new normal. Restrictions are lifted and we are beginning to decrease social distance yet we must continue...

Masturbation Month!

May is National Masturbation month. I know this is a strange association but masturbation brings me back to my first sex-positive role...

How Does Sex Work in the Age of #MeToo

On March 12, 2018, The New York Times published an article How Does Submissive Sex Work in the Age of #metoo. On February 25, 2018 they...

Aziz Ansari and Dating 101: Make Time For The Talk

This was a typical date. Meeting, flirting, texting, then the anticipated date night. Have drink, dinner, small talk, then back to a...

Not Mainstream

I picked up an old journal of mine from 2002. I was in the midst of suffering the loss of a friendship that validated me as “mainstream”....

Solo

I was recently called “single”. Because now that I am no longer married, I am not someone else’s “other half”. I am no longer a pair....

STARS Safer Sex Talk for Everyone

We live in a culture where shame surrounds sexuality. Many people are unaware of their sexual desires, fears, boundaries and intentions...

Herpes Simplex Virus without Shame

Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) is one of the most feared and least understood sexually transmitted infections (STIs). The infection itself is...

The Sorrow and Joy of Medicine

Sometimes I have a hard time explaining how patients heal me. How being present is a gift not only for them but for me as well. There is...

Sex Positive Medicine

To promote the essential force within us to for greater health and wellness. To help combat shame that inhibits our expression of our own...

Getting in Touch with Your Orgasmic Self

You were born through orgasm. And yet so many people are disconnected from their orgasmic selves. Is there a link between your orgasmic...